How to make others happy
To make others happy is the result of your own true love
To be happy is the result of being loved. To love means to:
fulfill other persons wishes
satisfy other peoples need
be a source of love
be a source of caresses
be a source of hugs
be with the loved one whenever needed
share all life - all experiences with loved ones
be a stronghold for others
protect others
free others
maintain or re-establish freedom for others
feel and know what others need
You can make others happy by affirming their needs - by saying YES to their needs and by becoming an active source of fulfillments of all their true innermost needs - very particularly a source of all variations of love expressed by others.
The opposite of love is denying other people’s wishes or desires, rejecting love from others or denying love to others for whatever personal reason always leads to emotional stress and distress - hence the opposite of true happiness.
Making others happy is the essential source of your very own happiness as well as your own feeling of being love-worthy. Learning to make as many happy as possible is a very basic skill all mankind needs to learn - here and now on earth before returning home to God.
What factors do facilitate making / being happy ?
Simple and humble life style - the less outer factors and material goods you need for our happiness, the easier it is to maintain happiness.
Sharing as many hours and activities together with loved ones and living partner
A productive job in a family business like environment where all family can participate actively in work, activities and experiences
Natural living environment
Small but separate living quarters for each individual family - surrounded by a belt of garden or wild nature
Regular daily hours and nights entirely reserved for partnership and family
Use gentle and humble words of love when communicating with others
Focus and emphasize on common points, common interests, common goals rather than on differences between you and loved ones.
What factors endanger happiness
Expensive life style
Complicated life style
Many different activities
Many different persons in regular contact
Experiences and work without loved ones and without partner. Activities you live separately from each other separate you, while experiences and work done together join you or strengthen true partnership and happiness
Life in artificial environment. Nature is a very vital and substantial part of daily re-balancing for your emotional, mental and spiritual body as well as your physical health. Artificial living environment leads to im-balanced energy on all levels and hence to illness.
Any activity or habit endangering health also endangers happiness and relationships
Anything that restricts the full and free flow of love between you and others
Anything that limits the amount of time spent together
Anything that keeps you from spending all time and all activities together
Laws and contracts of any kind
Limits, borders and frontiers of any kind
Restriction of freedom of any kind for any reason
Anything that restricts or prohibits the free expression and practice of individuality of each and every human or animal or other being
Anything that causes pain of any kind to others also destroys your own happiness and thus your very own partnership and family









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